Or maybe she just seems to be handling the whole breakup a lot better than you are.The question remains: how is she able to move on so fast, and why does all this seem so much harder on you than it is on her?Very few relationships start on terms other than sweetness and politeness.In the beginning, “the honeymoon” of the relationship, it’s difficult to determine what type of individual you are dating.Doing the right things and having the right mind set for this is really important for that to happen.

A simple and straight ‘Yes’ is the best answer to this!

I’ve come up with, what I believe to be, a fairly good approximation of what is going on. For one, if your ex has moved on seemingly quickly, it may have to do with her attachment pattern, which might very well be .

A study from the University of Toronto has found that anxiously attached individuals can more easily let go of their ex-partners if they focus on someone new.

What they observed is that anxiously attached individuals are naturally pessimistic about their chances of finding someone else.

As a result of this pessimism they feel longing for their ex-partners when broken up and put up with more ‘crap’ during their relationship in order to feel secure.