I believe everyone should be free to design the relationship model that works for them — and for me that’s dating younger men. I respond to maybe one percent of all the approaches I get.I have one criterion first and foremost: He has to be a nice person.Instead, according to the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health (which collects data well into adulthood), none of these things is occurring. The terms of contemporary sexual relationships favor men and what they want in relationships, not just despite the fact that what they have to offer has diminished, but in part because of it. To better understand what's going on, it's worth a crash course in "sexual economics," an approach best articulated by social psychologists Roy Baumeister and Kathleen Vohs.As Baumeister, Vohs, and others have repeatedly shown, on average, men want sex more than women do.But websites that promise to match older wealthy men with young attractive women have been thriving in America for years; one of the most popular – Seeking Arrangement.com, which bills itself as a place “where the attractive meet the affluent” – claims to have a million subscribers, with 10 women for every man.

Their financial prospects are impaired—earnings for 25- to 34-year-old men have fallen by 20 percent since 1971.

I’m fairly sure that a lot of girls think sex with older men means wrinkly balls and wiry hair coming out of an array of orifices. ) I’ve come across have belonged to men in their late thirties/forties.

I’m talking strong arms and good dress sense, because they’re actually willing to spend cash on clothes, not just overpriced football tickets or playstation games.

As a result, my so-called casual relationships go on a lot longer than most people’s so-called committed ones.

I date younger men off and on over periods of 2, 3, 4, 5 — or even 15 years.