So they will tell you to do certain things not because that is what will get you the girl, but because that is what would make them feel good and boost their egos, if they were the girl in question. She came to the first, cancelled the second, said she was really sorry.

My lady friend, A, recommended that I call back in 3 days if I don't hear from her, act considerate, and ask her if everything is ok. Because if she was H, that is what she would want me to do because that would boost her ego.

It's nice to hear nothing but your lover's breath against the backdrop of the evening or early morning.

Ever wondered why that thin, small and pimpled guy still get's the girl?

Turns out, much of the advice you thought was helpful actually might be hurting you.

Advice To Ignore: If see a girl you like, make eye contact with her across the bar. You may think you’re giving her a flirty stare, but she’s probably just scared and confused. "Stare for no longer than three seconds then go and introduce yourself.

But hey, let's stick to real life.) When you are thinking of approaching her there might be a million thoughts running through your head.

The ONLY real difference between you and that guy is the way that you perceive your capabilities your, (in)ability to approach her and the way you relate to women and yourself. Are they afraid of not knowing how to respond to her?